Dialogue with colleagues with a negative attitude
Long ago, I started the work of trust and real estate lawyers who needed help of his filing system. Paralegal who was working for him for over 10 years was also adopted by him. Her life collapses with the destructive effects of four stages of cancer and chemotherapy, she will become a shell of herself. Together with the history of bullying, obesity, chronic pain, memory loss, she was low self-esteem and strong helpless. It was not easy to deal with people who had experienced tremendous pain in her life. I was often exposed to her troublesome retort, sometimes exposed to an unfair wording. Time and time once again I stood there thinking that there was the possibility that someone could be very confrontational and defensive. I knew there were some fundamental fundamental reasons. Since I knew she had to work with her during an unknown time, my mission was to understand her and I knew that I was not a therapist, but confidence I knew that I had to adopt a soft approach to get it. She was ...