Solve and win

"I have reached the end of my life and I do not want to know that I just spent that length." - Diane Ackerman

The definitions of solutions resolve definitely, reaching decisions with purpose, achieving objectives. When we make decisions to do something, we keep in mind to come up with the best path to our desired destination. We do not need to hurry as we may decide to keep something clean like something like keeping the house clean or getting up early. Children may decide to do homework on time or to be more proficient in sports. Others decide to do something special. Actually, there is a phrase called Big Hairy Bold Goal ("BHAG"). This is a target of 10 to 30 years for the team to progress towards the planned future. For example, Google's BHAG was to organize the world's information and achieve universal access and usefulness, but Amazon's goal was to create all the printed books in every language less than 60 seconds is.

Regardless of whether we decide to do something small or whether we have our own personal BHAG or not, we believe that the lives of ourselves and others are more functional, prominent, I have a new commitment that I hope to be easy or objective. We are motivated to set guidelines to help us pursue our dreams and set up courses to achieve our goals. Several people tell you the time when they failed before they succeed. They say that they will not surrender to defeat unreasonable thoughts such as "I can not do this" or "I will not succeed". Success stories are negligible. Most people known in his / her field are working hard for their success. If you try to find their story, they often discover that they have many odds for them. Many people came from disadvantaged people and it seems that it was virtually impossible to have success with health problems and family problems and obstacles.

Recently, when President Michelle Obama came to England with her husband, she visited a girls' school in London. She told the student how her husband worked at an elliptical office desk called "Resolute" desk. It is made from the wood of HMS Resolute, it was abandoned British ship returned to Queen Victoria as a proof of friendship and goodwill, found in an American ship. She entrusted the desk of William Evenden of Royal Naval Dockyard in Chatham, England, and presented it to President Rutherford Hayes in 1880.

Michelle said the desk is "a permanent symbol of friendship between the two countries." I pursue your dreams and I hope that you all resolve, progress without limit, and use talent. We need a strong, smart, confident young lady to stand up and tightrope. I know what you can do.

For today's young woman, Michelle Obama will be a person who inspires them. Her father's great grandmother, Jim Robinson, is an American slave of South Carolina State, some of the family still lives. She worked enthusiastically as a student to earn high acclaim at school and made it possible to attend Princeton University and became a lawyer. She has a strong value on what is justice or wrong, and married a man who shares that value with her. She took Barak as a lawyer's lawyer. She did not know that at that time she would be the wife of the president of the United States. To be a minority in the United States is not yet easy. I do not know what kind of obstacle Michel is facing, but indeed she did not keep that obstacle on my back.

There are big dreams among you reading this article. For you, this article is strong, not to be able to never get anything permanently to achieve the goal, to continue to embrace when you are not asked, not selected, Life is more complicated for those reading this. You do not know what you want. You have not found out what your dream is. You do not mind if you work hard, but I do not know where I can start. Or, there is a child you need and the elderly parents, it is your job to help them. So, your dream is always in the back burner.

Before offering some tips, let's start with three major principals that will help you solve:

1. Please raise your resolve with the attitude of richness and rarity. Please concentrate on the blessing you already have. I write two articles on how to develop the appreciation attitude that can be read by clicking here.

2. When you are walking the way to the goal, consider what people have to do to achieve your goals. Let's set your determination by saying a strong assertion of yourself about yourself, since you really have to act with a suitable attitude to achieve your goals.

What you believe and what you believe can influence the outside world of you. But what you look outward will affect your set of minds and help you achieve your goals. Everyone knows it important to write down your goals. For example, when I solved to complete the book I was writing, I put the cover of the book on the wall of my bedroom and the wall of my office. It is also on my computer desktop background and screensaver.

A few years ago, I had a dream to create an office in my back yard in nature. My decision was to create a space where I can work without disturbing in a beautiful environment. I visualized it in every way. First of all, I found photographs and pictures of Japanese gardens. Then I cut out the picture of the wooden cabin and the furniture entering there. I blended the images of the elements of nature that are pleasing to all senses. There are bonsai and cherry trees. Imagining a flowering climber like honeysuckle or jasmine was not difficult. I can hear the gentle sound of the rocky waterfall and the wind echoes in my heart. I strategically place bird feeders, seduce beautiful birds and fascinate me with melodious songs. I was looking for a space where my heart would not get confused by the confusion that too many things are happening in my daily life.

In the office, I imagined, fresh aroma of pine trees, lavender, fragrant candle. On the interior wall there is an oil painting that draws flowers carefully and an affirmative phrase with a frame of calligraphy. The goal is to create a feeling that people who came to my office feel comfortable and enter a safe haven that feels peaceful.

My dream has become a reality, celebrating the early stages of a small cabin and a Japanese garden. There is still a long way to go, but I'm happy to say that the flowers are growing, the winds play the song with a chime, and the golden black birds are singing enthusiastically to nearby colleagues. The atmosphere so far has further strengthened my determination until I reach my final goal.

Tips for starting what you want to change

You know what you want to achieve or change as your life, yourself, as a person, or as a parent. By taking the first step, please move your goals to action. Please walk the first street of the ladder. William Hutchison Murray wrote as follows. "There is a chance to hesitate and retreat until someone commits, boldness has genius, power, and magic.

2. In the case of BHAG, achieve the goal every day, start from the first 24 hours, next week, next 30 days, next 3 months, 6 months, depending on your goal, eventually It is a year.

3. Keep a mood journal. When checking the progress of the solution, it is helpful to write down what you are feeling and what you are doing. Do you have something to confirm you? Can you do something about it? Just writing what you are thinking makes you feel better and you can make your way brighter.

4. We will keep your health so that you will not be discouraged. Enough sleep, exercise, proper diet is probably the most important thing to keep your body in good shape to do what your heart and mind wants. Please plan according to your schedule of these things no matter what happens.

Share what you are trying to do with the person you trust. It is effective to speak with the person at your side and what you can be responsible for. It is also a mentor with experience that will help you to improve the skills you can advance. People outside your social group may also be useful for counselors, coaches, therapists, etc.

6. Open your heart and learn from everything with everyone. Continue reading, keep talking with people, go to new places and open your eyes. I never know what you are seeing or reading. It will change your perspective in the way you need. Please evolve ourselves.

7. Be faithful to yourself. It's an old word, but that's very important. Plato says, "I know myself." Shakespeare says, "Yourself is the truth." Please adjust to yourself. Please set an example for your child so that you can learn confidently with their goals and dreams.

Finally, we would like to conclude by drawing out the wisdom of animals all the time. Like humans, animals find ways to accomplish what they do. In ancient traditions and some cultures of today, the spirit of animals will help people achieve their goals. An elephant, for example, is an animal working towards one goal in many cultures. The slow and magnificent movement of the elephant may help yourself to advance and may help nothing to stop you from achieving your dreams. Over time, elephants were admired by their intelligence and loyalty to their own kind. What is mentioned to the elephants is the Bible and any number of literary works suggesting the power and strength to overcome the obstacles the elephants were given to them.

Once again, if he / she works to help your child move in different directions, he / she may be related to a solid elephant. Let's surround you with a picture of an animal reminding me not to lose sight of achieving your goals. As Michelle says ... you can do it!

Patience and perseverance have a magical effect, before the difficulties are gone, obstacles disappear. - John Quincy Adams

© 2009 Dr Angel Angel Adams & Dr Patricia Pacciak. all rights reserved.

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